So I can& #39;t keep this to myself, @/soupyeel aka @/ArkyDraws is a toxic and manipulative person. More details in the thread
Within the screenshot alone, there is clear gaslighting from @/soupyeel, with him turning the conversation around to attack me for venting about someone who legitimately hurt me, when I had simply called him out...
for his toxic behavior of saying awful things about people within his discord server, and pointing out his hypocrisy in his actions when he is disgusted by someone else doing the same exact thing. The only differences between these two was that the other person made fun of n*des.
Then, as you can see at the end of the screenshot, @/soupyeel proceeds to defend his toxic behavior by saying "It& #39;s okay, because they can& #39;t see it." Which is, undoubtedly, the same exact excuse used by the person I compared @/soupyeel to.
for examples of how horrifically toxic @/soupyeel is, he once got so irrationally angry at a member in his server for absolutely no valid reason. Any time this user spoke in the server, @/soupyeel would always rush to the mod chats to spew mile long rants about this user.
His incessant ranting and bitterness eventually bled onto us other mods of his server, and got worse and worse until one of us mods finally decided to talk to the user in question, and suddenly all problems with them were gone.
Another example of @/soupyeel& #39;s toxicity
earlier this week a member had gotten in trouble, and @/soupyeel& #39;s immediate response to another mod dealing with said member was to spout another mile long rant about this member, including saying things such as,
earlier this week a member had gotten in trouble, and @/soupyeel& #39;s immediate response to another mod dealing with said member was to spout another mile long rant about this member, including saying things such as,
"shut the fuck up about your wife. I don& #39;t fucking care."
Prior to this, @/soupyeel had been completely silent on any grievances about this member, nor did he ever discuss with us mods what should be done about this member.
Prior to this, @/soupyeel had been completely silent on any grievances about this member, nor did he ever discuss with us mods what should be done about this member.
Which brings me to my next point!
@/soupyeel has been actively excluding us other mods from discussions about moderating business within the server he co-owns with his fiance. This not only utterly defeats the point of having us mods, but sends a massive red flag that
@/soupyeel has been actively excluding us other mods from discussions about moderating business within the server he co-owns with his fiance. This not only utterly defeats the point of having us mods, but sends a massive red flag that
@/soupyeel is actively isolating his fiance from their friends to manipulate the decisions they make.
I had originally left the server after being respectfully asked by the owner of the server @/soupyeel co-owns, but after finding out that @/soupyeel was an active part in his fiance& #39;s decision to ask me to leave, I now question if they were manipulated into coming to said choice.
In addition to making it clear he had a strong influence in his fiance& #39;s decision, he is also twisting and downplaying the situation so nobody asks questions and forget about it, so he hopes.
It& #39;s appalling at the vile things @/soupyeel will say in front of his own fiance, and his attitude of "It& #39;s okay to say awful things about people if they can& #39;t see or hear it" leads me to fear what he says about his own fiance when they can& #39;t see or hear what he says.
I truly worry about his fiance& #39;s safety, both physically and mentally, as it& #39;s clear to me how unaware they are of @/soupyeel& #39;s abusive and toxic nature.
I apologize for the lack of screenshots to back up my claims. I had decided to come forward about this after I had left the server, unfortunately, and I know simply asking those who see this to believe me without evidence to back my claim is a tall order.
Please share this to your friends who follow or support @/soupyeel or @/ArkyDraws. Your time and hard earned money is better spent elsewhere than supporting this toxic and abusive man.
If you have been abused or otherwise harmed by @/soupyeel, please share your stories too! You deserve to be heard!