Thread by @spillthebeens, Parents constantly say "Do all this after you get married", like ur [...]

Parents constantly say "Do all this after you get married", like ur allowed to have a life only after marriage. Then the very next day they& #39;ll sarcastically say the opposite like, "Ya, ya, enjoy all this now only. Your in-laws& #39; house won& #39;t be like this".

It& #39;s like an Indian woman& #39;s life is split into two stages: Before Marriage and After Marriage. Either way, both stages are a jail sentence. Before marriage your parents wanna control you. After marriage your husband& #39;s parents wanna control you. LET US LIVE, FFS.

It& #39;s like this: ANY thing we do in life is measured w how it& #39;ll affect The Marriage. For instance: That sarcastic comment above is what I got for, get this, ORDERING FROM MCDONALD& #39;S. How did she manage to connect me ordering food to... marriage?! One that& #39;s IN THE DISTANT FUTURE?

Wanna travel? Wear make up? Stay out late? Wear clothes of your own choice? Hang out with friends? ORDER FOOD?
"After marriage

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WHY? Aren& #39;t ALL of those a part of... living? Why does a woman need to be tied to a man JUST TO LIVE? First to the father, then to the husband.
??!

And after you& #39;re married, do you at least get to do any of this? LMAO NOPE. Your mother-in-law will watch you like a hawk. Making sure that you& #39;re the perfectly obedient little servant that your parents promised them you& #39;d be.

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Come home late, even if it& #39;s from work? That& #39;s a strike against you. Order food? WHAT? With your husband& #39;s hard-earned money?! Strike. Sleeveless kurti? Shameless! Strike. Hanging out w friends? Lol what& #39;s that? Who& #39;ll look after the house? Strike. And travel? LMAO cute.

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Fun fact: The marriage vows in my religious denomination requires both parties to make certain promises about this "equal" partnership. Man promises to & #39;take care& #39; of his wife. Woman promises to... & #39;obey& #39;.... her husband.
O B E Y

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Equal. Partnership. My big fat ASS.

Often you& #39;ll come across married couples fighting. Both get angry. Both yell. But you& #39;ll only hear one of them yell, "Why can& #39;t you just OBEY me!"
No matter how much our dads insist that mom is final authority in the house... we all know who really owns control. :)

Sigh.
There& #39;s no specific point to this thread.
Just an unpolished rant.
I haven& #39;t said anything new. Nothing that hasn& #39;t already been said countless times.
Everyday someone comes on here to say FUCK PATRIARCHY.
Guess it was my turn today.
Oh, hey, there& #39;s that specific point.

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