everyone in their 20s is really worried about hitting 30 and I definitely get it. 30 is different and a little weird, but I promise your life doesn’t end at 30. I see a lot of posts where people basically expect to evaporate once they’ve hit 30. doesn’t happen. you’ll be fine

and please stop putting unrealistic expectations on yourself about any of it. people assume if they don’t have certain things done by 30 then they’ve failed. let’s just relax. you’ve got all the time in the world. it’s all okay. keep working hard and I love u :)

I’m personally really proud I made it to 31. That was very unexpected. I can’t manage to be upset about it. Feels like my life is just starting in a lot of ways. So yea!