Bellamy believing he was doing the right thing for everyone and because of that putting Madi's life at risk are two things that are perfectly compatible with each other and some people really need to understand that. You can love a character but you can't be THAT blind.
I know Lexa put Clarke and Skaikru at risk by leaving them at Mount Weather. I believe she did the right thing, and that's fine by me. But I'm not in fucking denial saying SHE DIDN'T PUT THEM AT RISK AT ALL, NOTHING OF WHAT HAPPENED WAS HER FAULT, SHE WAS TRYING TO SAVE THEM.
If you're gonna love a character you have to love them with what they've done. If you consider the writers have fucked up, that's okay. Say you don't acknowledge it cause that's not him. If you think what he did was right, that's okay. Love him it. But don't erase what he did.
And the worst part is, instead of saying what he did was crappy. Or was wrong to Clarke. They blame it on Clarke. The character with problems is hers. The one defending her child. Not the one putting her at risk even if he didn't mean to. It's exhausting dealing with these people