transphobic ""traps"" or crossdressers are really so sad to see. so many of them unknowingly deal with internalized transmisogyny that pervents them from coming to terms with identity and finding community. its self-hate in an attempt to fit in to cis standards.

ive been there before too, when i was young. my sister actually dealt with this much longer than me, and ive talked to a few CDs before that felt this and were open to learning more and being more accepting of the trans community. but its just another way transmisogyny affects us

not saying at all that all crossdressers are that way. but the transphobia shines out when you call yourself a ""trap"" and constantly attack trans women. its a state of mind i empathize with so much its almost hard to be mad at any of them :/

anyways @FormidableTrap @WroggleTrap learn anything from this?