Don’t think it’s only women who are envious of other women. Some of your male partners have feminine spirits, so whilst you won’t understand why it feels like they’re always tearing you down, energetically, they see you in the same league as them.
Usually these type of men may have baby boy syndrome & seek to be taken care of. They’re largely resentful of women because they don’t understand why society is inclined to take care of women. I call it, vagina envy. They recognise they lack the ‘power’ to be provided for.
However, they will usually seek out women who are masculine in their actions. Women who do not mind working themselves senseless, women who try too hard to ‘prove’ their worth or their value, women who believe they have to ‘earn’ the reciprocity of others, women who overly
emphasise 50/50 in relationships.
If you want to avoid attracting men who are highly jealous of you, allow yourself to become pronounced in your feminine energy. See yourself as the high value source you are. Understand that your highest state is in being, rather than doing.
These types of men are typically raised by single mothers & they watched their own mothers struggle, so they are accustomed to & will NOT rescue you from your own struggle. Their mother usually babied them or overly protected them from the harsh realities of the world.
No matter how difficult the home life was for the mother, they usually still saw that outside of the home, people treated the mother w/ a certain delicacy because she was a woman. Later, they’ll resent women for the way society generally agrees they should be protected/looked
after, whilst also subconsciously believing that their mother was somehow deserving of the hardships she endured in the home, either because her hardships meant that he was also entrapped (especially in the case of an abusive father), or because he would see her as too weak to
truly insight long term change in their lives.
Make no mistake about it, this is NOT toxic masculinity. It’s toxic femininity. Energetically, these men wish they were women. And yes, these types also usually uphold patriarchy, which distracts them from the fact they don’t have a
true masculine bone in their entire body.
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