Radfems perpetuating the idea that all men are predators is so awful on so many levels. Some of us are traumatised and actually want to be told that not everybody in the world is a horrible predator and some people are going to treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

They're trying to prey on my fear of abuse and manipulate me by fearmongering that all men are out to retraumatise me. Fuck you. I'm trying to heal in peace, I don't want your attempts to shove reactionary bullshit down my throat. It's nauseating.

They don't want abuse survivors to feel safe, secure, and in control. They want us to be blinded by fear so we can succumb to their cult tactics. If you really cared about survivors, you'd tell them the real warning signs. Hint: gender identity is not one of them.

Yes, cishet abled white men have power in society. But because some abuse that power doesn't mean all will. Not all of humanity is evil. Nevermind that many men aren't the above, and are already marginalised. In fact, you can even become marginalised, like with disability.