ive never really thought of myself as nb (and i still don’t honestly) but i saw a video recently of someone talking as if ordering ice cream for you using diff pronouns and i went “huh!!! being called They didn’t really feel,, wrong??”

she/her still felt the most correct and he/him felt distinctly incorrect but they/them made me go “yeah ok! i wouldn’t mind if someone called me that!”

it could just be because they/them feels very neutral to me? since it’s what you use when you’re not sure what you should use,,

i’d link the video but it was just something i came across on instagram a little while ago and i can’t find it on youtube :(( i’m pretty sure it was a tiktok but i don’t use that...

anyway i don’t really know the point of this thread im just Thinkin!!