If you can’t tell the difference between bdsm and sexual violence you don’t know shit about bdsm https://twitter.com/mimamsic/status/1308757596585648130

It’s literally the difference between fantasy and reality. If distinguishing those is hard for you, that’s a you problem.

Getting real sick and tired of this pearl-clutching conservative anti-sex bullshit pretending to be liberal

Liking a cake in the shape of a sneaker doesn’t mean you want to eat an actual sneaker. Playing Guitar Hero doesn’t make you good at guitar. Being attracted to women in suits doesn’t mean you’re attracted to men.

A cake in the shape of a sneaker is not actually a sneaker. Guitar Hero gives you the fantasy of being a rock star without the process of studying music and getting gigs. A woman in a suit is a woman, not a man.

BDSM isn’t fucking violence, it is the accoutrements and aesthetics of violence with a deep core of actually caring and giving a shit about the human being you’re practicing it with. There’s negotiation before and care after. There’s communication about limits and boundaries.

Adult human beings in childlike outfits are not children, they are adult human beings. Do you also think a cake in the shape of a sneaker is viable footwear? You sound like a homophobe who thinks lesbians are attracted to men because they like women in suits.