Thread by @BrightWinTitas, Callout/Cancelled culture is always toxic when you go overboard & can no [...]

Callout/Cancelled culture is always toxic when you go overboard & can no longer draw a line between thoughtfully educating someone & insinuating hate. This is why we have always been patient in engaging w/ people in the most objective way when there are differences in opinion--

because we recognize that not everyone are good w/ words or sometimes people act based on impulse when a sensitive string is tugged. When we are immediately on a fight mode when responding, it will eventually lead into an argument that will later on create unnecessary drama--

a drama that will 9x out of 10 take your attention further away from the actual issue at hand. Everybody here are affectionate towards the boys and just like any fandom, people have biases. The only thing that we are asking from solo stans is to not malign the other. It really

confuses me how you were able to wholeheartedly love your bias from a show that was basically built around both of them. I always try to give the benefit of the doubt when people have strong feelings against a figure but this has always puzzled me. Let's bring back something--

LOL. HOW.

WHEN YOU WATCHED THEM BUTAS BA YUNG TV/SCREEN? BLACK HOLE BA SI SARAWAT? BLURRED BA SI TINE?

We can all have a favorite but I will never understand hate of any form, at any given time. Never. Ever. https://twitter.com/BrightWinTitas/status/1302768914024132611?s=19

https://twitter.com/BrightWinTitas/status/1302768914024132611?s=19

One day I hope that people would be more inclined on a healthy discourse than taking sides, learn how to pick their battles and when to leave it up to a higher authority, accept when we are the impulsive ones who are being immature or petty, be receptive to feedback and actually

take in the learnings and be genuine in making the baby steps to change. Let us not be the same people we accuse the antis and haters are: magnifies the tiniest actions, not doing fact checks, digs up the past & dont give second chances. Sounds familiar? Yes coz a lot here have

been so busy throwing these on them while falling into the trap of becoming like them in the process. Maybe the comfort that we can give BW is them seeing this fandom not fight with each other coz then it'll be easier for them to recognize who's real & who are we sending to jail.

Protect BW at all cost, but w/ class and manners. Report accounts, send screenshots to their OFCs & do not engage. Normalize asking questions for more context & be open to provide your POV w/o feeling attacked all the time. It makes us an even stronger force than we already are.

Their lives are not ours to take responsibility for. It's what we say and do that needs looking after. We are worried yes and the least we can do in these trying times to help ease their minds is to show ourselves properly. Maybe that's the assurance we can give