by the way if you use systems to “justify” bi/pan lesbians/gays as a singlet you actually disgust me

we’re not your excuse ... we’re not your scapegoat ... we are real actual people with our own emotions and thoughts and i hate it when singlets pull the “but what about systems!!” when trying to justify bi/pan lesbians

it’s actually dehumanizing . it feels so terrible to know that to some people we are seen as an excuse to ‘validate’ a completely invalid identity and nothing more

by the way that’s Not how systems work. i’m pansexual, i have gay, lesbian, etc alters, that doesn’t make me a “pan gay” because we are not the same people. i hate it when people treat us all like we’re the same person for the sake of their shitty argument. we are our own people.