I would do it a LOT for love but I will not cruelly harm or kill unless protecting someone vulnerable or in self-defense. And I no matter how wonderful it is to feel loved, I will never try to selfishly mold or shape or force or trick a man into the one who I think will love me.

If a guy liked me to harm or threaten other girls or violate their privacy or passive-aggressively insult them & put them down to make myself look better by contrast, I’d just lose respect for that man.

Love is healthy.

If so-called love is at the expense of healthy respect, kindness, or integrity in some kind of contest, it’s a kind of ego fixation w/ Being Loved, but it isn’t real love at all.

Possessiveness isn’t passion; it’s control.
Obsession isn’t love; it’s addiction

Going to delete this thread, correct typos and repost