Chile y’all would be surprised who met and had a kid quickly lmao. Worked for me https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😌" title="Erleichtertes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Erleichtertes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥂" title="Anstoßende Gläser" aria-label="Emoji: Anstoßende Gläser">
I know way too many couples who were together for years and a kid changed everything. Sure, vetting is important, but sometimes life just works that way.

People get so judgy and it’s like, I’ve been in a super long term relationship. If it ain’t right it just ain’t right. Time truly doesn’t mean much to me anymore.

If you want to have certain things done in your relationship prior to having a kid then great. If you meet someone and it happens quickly great. Do what works for you and fck these people and their opinions