Most whites, don't like to talk about racism for a few reasons, 1) they know how bad it is, 2) they more than likely, got family members / friends, who they know are, who they don't wanna talk to them about their racism nor deal with. Which creates a serious problem. Denial,

Malcolm said this, 50 years ago, it has to come from whites, they're not listening to us, they consider us the problem. Friends don't let friends become extreme racist, it has to come from the white community, you already know who they are.
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/63737-i-tell-sincere-white-people-work-in-conjunction-with-us- Work with us.

Extreme racism, is a mental illness, these people are disturbed, who are more than likely to be your neighbor your friend might even be your husband or wife ever they may be it is your responsibility to see to it they receive help. Denial, Profits No One. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1071634/