RELATIONSHIP QUESTION AND ANSWER;
EPISODE 4
QUESTION:
Before I got saved I so much find pleasure in flirting with ladies but now that I'm saved, I feel uneasy even talking to ladies but I want to evangelize to the world including ladies, what should I do?
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ANSWER:
Finally, submit yourself to mentoring and spiritual parenting. Ephesians 6:1 (KJV) "Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right." This will help you with control. It gives you laws on what you should do and what you should not do before you are totally free

Submitting yourself to mentoring and spiritual parenting with reverence creates holy fear in you whereby there are things you will never do.
Spiritual parenting and mentoring is very diverse, in that it consolidates every other thing.

It completes every other work the Word of God and service do to you. It makes you accountable and this helps you renew your mind also and further subjects your body.

Spiritual parenting kills negative tendencies because you now have someone who says do and you must do because you have spiritual fear. This will help you not to be subject to the works of the flesh. This will definitely control the things you were used to before now.

A lot of people fall victim of what they had been used to before getting saved because of lack of absolute submission to spiritual authority. Romans 13:1KJV-Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God

4. Get into leadership. When you begin to serve God, you don't stay in one place because that can allow the devil begin to tempt you. As your responsibility in the house of God grows, your understanding, capacity, intelligence and thought grows.

As you begin to work under ladies, you will start seeing ladies as mothers. You have to continue to move in leadership so that your mind will expand as you get involved in more things that will expand your mind.

As you go higher in leadership, the more difficult it is for you to commit sin because a lot is at stake. Higher level of responsibility keeps you from fulfilling the lust of the flesh because you are full of spiritual activities and routines, so you are too busy to commit sin.

Having the consciousness that you will be judged by things you do with your body will help you use your body for service and continue to grow higher in it.

5. Discipline, by ensuring that you henceforth allow only what will stir you to God's work into your mind. Don't go back.

You don't go around hanging out with ladies at night, unnecessary relationships or closeness.
In 1 Corinthians 9:24, 27 (KJV), Paul said "run a race to obtain" "mastery are temperate" which means discipline.

Apostle Paul said he kept his body under which means he deliberately did not yield to certain things that would make him feel good. This means that there are friends you won't have to associate with anymore because they will take you back and it is very easy to go back.

It is easy to fall than to stand. It takes almost nothing to fall but it takes everything to stand. If you are not disciplined as you keep on renewing your mind, you will still go back.

Now that you are used to working with ladies not as girlfriends but as mothers and colleagues, if you begin to associate with unnecessary friends you might still go back.

1 Corinthians 15:33 (KJV); "Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners."

At this level, you feeling uneasy with ladies would have been reduced greatly because you have worked with ladies in service and also probably the person taking you Life class is a lady. These are the things that will help you see proper orientation about ladies.

Lastly, declaring of our words: This is very important according to Joshua 1:8 (KJV) "This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein:

for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success."
You are to declare this every time : "I can never fall, I have boldness." Declaring your word controls your thoughts and your mind.

This must be done with consistency as it will help you in controlling your thoughts, your day. And once your thought is being controlled, then your actions will be controlled and you feeling uneasy with ladies will be a thing of the past.

Looking at Jesus in Mathew 4:4 (KJV), the Bible says Jesus was tempted. That is, the devil came with a thought. That devil is the word "flesh." And we said earlier that the flesh has desires.

The desire there was food but what Jesus did was that he declared the word, that is, He spoke out. He already knew the word and then He applied it. Jesus defeated the devil by declaring the word out.

This means that anytime you are declare the word you defeat negative thoughts, renewing your mind and putting the flesh where it belongs.
Romans 10:10 (KJV); "For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."

That is, you are to declare with your mouth by saying: "In the name of Jesus I can never fall; I am full of strength in my spirit; I am more than sin; I am not a servant to sin; sin shall not have dominion over me anymore."

Declaring this, you will begin to see it work in your life.
Note: A renewed mind brings to pass the will of God. An unrenewed mind brings to pass the dictates and lust of the flesh.
Everything said; the Word of God, service, leadership, discipline, declaration.

All these things come together to form a spiritual man.
The Bible says in 2 Timothy 3:17 (KJV); "throughly furnished", that is as you go through all. You are not to miss any of them because every one of them are working together for the renewal of your soul.

We said earlier that the soul is the most important after salvation and would even determine if you will experience the dividends of the salvation or not.
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