What I learned about Offgun when it comes to being in a relationship is that even if you love someone so much, you still need to know your worth as a person. Being in a relationship should not be one-sided, the real one will change himself not because you told him to do that, ++

he will change himself cause he is scared to lose you, your worth is so much in his life. He knows that his life will be dull & lifeless without you in it.

As to the person who fell inlove first, don't give up easily. Loving someone requires so much patience & sincerity.

Time will come & probably that person will see your true intention, worth & sincerity. If he also loves you back, he will never look to someone else cause you are already enough for him.

But this is not the case for everyone if you know that it's too much already. Let go.

Again, know your worth. You deserve so much better.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean that the world revolve around you two only, you two can go on a vacation together.

You can also go on a vacation with your set of friends. You are in a relationship but there's this individuality that still exists.

A healthy relationship is like this.

You can sulk to each other sometimes cause it's part of being in a relationship but always remember that at the end of the day you should talk about it then resolve it.

Off Jumpol said that sulking for hours is okay but if it lasts for days already, it's not good. That's why he always make sure that Gun & him will talk about it before the day ends.

That's really true, you should not let your partner sleep w/ a heavy heart. Resolve it right away

It's alright even if you have different preferences in everything as long as you respect & adjust to each other, you can still have a happy & healthy relationship. Gun knows that Off can not eat spicy foods, he won't even tease him by forcing him to eat spicy foods.

Instead, he protects him by eating the spicy foods for him or warn him that the food is spicy. That's respect.

Another one is that even if he knows Off the best and there's no barrier around him cause he's so soft for Gun unlike to others, Gun never disrespect Off by making fun

of him in a rude way. Other than their 2 year age gap, he respects Off so much as a person & his partner. He knows that Off doesn't like it & Gun himself doesn't like to be rude to Off.

Offgun relationship is really healthy & mature.