Pt 1/?
In light of this thread, I have decided it& #39;s story time. Buckle up.
A few months ago, someone who followed me on my (fleeting) OnlyFans emailed to book a social walking date. He screened, we met, we started to walk, and we talked.
As time went on, it became clear that https://twitter.com/Kirsis_PP/status/1307992996835553281">https://twitter.com/Kirsis_PP...
In light of this thread, I have decided it& #39;s story time. Buckle up.
A few months ago, someone who followed me on my (fleeting) OnlyFans emailed to book a social walking date. He screened, we met, we started to walk, and we talked.
As time went on, it became clear that https://twitter.com/Kirsis_PP/status/1307992996835553281">https://twitter.com/Kirsis_PP...
2/? we were not a good fit.
This person is highly intelligent, worldly, & successful. They also started down a line of conversation / questioning that was wildly boundary pushing and delivered with an air of condescension.
I was ill at ease around them, but tried to be nice.
This person is highly intelligent, worldly, & successful. They also started down a line of conversation / questioning that was wildly boundary pushing and delivered with an air of condescension.
I was ill at ease around them, but tried to be nice.
3/? Backing up quickly, I should note that they had booked *two* walking dates.
Anyway, the first concluded, and the second arrived. I found myself dreading having to bat away uncomfortable questions and feel like I was being .. analyzed? Picked apart? Read? But he had prepaid.
Anyway, the first concluded, and the second arrived. I found myself dreading having to bat away uncomfortable questions and feel like I was being .. analyzed? Picked apart? Read? But he had prepaid.
4/? So I went.
We sat on a bench and our uncomfortable "conversation" limped along. He asked about my (then planned) move away from Chicago, & I replied. I paused momentarily to try to articulate a thought I had ... then spoke again.
He scoffed, "Is it MY turn to talk yet?"
We sat on a bench and our uncomfortable "conversation" limped along. He asked about my (then planned) move away from Chicago, & I replied. I paused momentarily to try to articulate a thought I had ... then spoke again.
He scoffed, "Is it MY turn to talk yet?"
5/? ... and sat smirking. He followed this with, "You know, you lack any warmth."
It was at this point that I decided to tell him exactly - articulately and calmly - how inappropriate and utterly insufferable he was.
It was at this point that I decided to tell him exactly - articulately and calmly - how inappropriate and utterly insufferable he was.
6/? Backtrack! I cannot forget this convo:
Him "You like to act, don& #39;t you? You are theatrical."
Me, matter of factly & not indulging, "No. I am straight forward. Though, like everyone, there are some differences between who I am at work and who I am in private."
Him *scowl*
Him "You like to act, don& #39;t you? You are theatrical."
Me, matter of factly & not indulging, "No. I am straight forward. Though, like everyone, there are some differences between who I am at work and who I am in private."
Him *scowl*
7/? He would just make these grandiose "observations" about me that were wildly inaccurate. But in his mind? He was right. EVERY thing he insinuated / "observed" / stated about me or - later - chided me for came from the place of him being some superior and all knowing being.
8/? He very obviously had a "thing" for trying to get inside the minds of strong women and manipulate them. I was having none of it.
So, as stated, I calmly and firmly listed his series of offenses.
So, as stated, I calmly and firmly listed his series of offenses.
9/? He stated that clearly I was only used to fucking men, not talking to them (
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I wrapped up my list, wished him well w/a smile, & went on my way happy that he hadn& #39;t booked an actual DATE.
I wrapped up my list, wished him well w/a smile, & went on my way happy that he hadn& #39;t booked an actual DATE.
10/10
In conclusion: To those whining and bemoaning - you know - treating a provider like a human being? You and this guy should form a support group. Get together. Go for walks. Discuss your mutual maladjustments. And leave us out of it.
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In conclusion: To those whining and bemoaning - you know - treating a provider like a human being? You and this guy should form a support group. Get together. Go for walks. Discuss your mutual maladjustments. And leave us out of it.