okay this is outright dumb and rude honestly, clearly shows the demographic that has such a hatred mindset. I live in a multicultural society for god's sake and i know my boundaries very well

i choose to stan them bcos i know and have seen their growth as people. What do y'all know? nothing. This fundamental attribution error (FAE) of assuming one's personality solely bcos of the actions that they do needs to stop.

it's called FAE for a reason bcos people forget to regard (or purposely disregard) any other perspectives or environmental factors that also plays a part in contributing to the actions that were made. They just assume that they did it to mock which clearly isn't the case.

how to understand this concept? easy. Imagine if you are a boss and a worker is late - you would assume he is lazy just bcos he is late. But what you don't consider is that he could've been struggling with personal issues back at home etc. which causes him to be late.

This essentially spirals into poor judgements and worst, resentful hatred. Which is why every single claim like "they called me a b*eaner" "they are colorists/ r*cist" is straight up bullshit bcos you made false narratives to stir things up zzz

I'm just glad oh my girl are pretty much unbothered by hateful mean comments after having been thru worst back then. Imagine if they are hypersensitive, i can't even begin to imagine what could happen.

And since when is cyberbullying normalised?? I thought we're all way past that stage smh we can all do better honestly

i can't believe i just brought up a hate comment in the timeline, i'm sorry. This is rather personal bcos the anon confession just assumed the worst in all of us keuries and i got so defensive...i'm sorry