18 years old. What a magical time in my life. Fresh out of high school, ready to rock the world.
I, however, wasn't ready to get cheated on and crash land into reality.
It was all avoidable, if only I had the knowledge.
7 THINGS I WISH I KNEW ABOUT WOMEN AT 18 [THREAD].
I, however, wasn't ready to get cheated on and crash land into reality.
It was all avoidable, if only I had the knowledge.
7 THINGS I WISH I KNEW ABOUT WOMEN AT 18 [THREAD].
#1: Women do not speak to you with words, but with actions.
Never take a woman's words at face value. Women do not communicate like men.
Women will communicate with subtle hints that will drive you crazy if you can't decipher them. Learn what they mean.
Never take a woman's words at face value. Women do not communicate like men.
Women will communicate with subtle hints that will drive you crazy if you can't decipher them. Learn what they mean.
Example: If a girl likes you, she will not come up there and tell you. She'll sit across the room, make eye contact, and try to look as pretty as possible.
Now, if you were like me at 18, you'd start wondering if she likes you.
If you were smart, you'd already know.
Now, if you were like me at 18, you'd start wondering if she likes you.
If you were smart, you'd already know.
Do you know how many times your girl has wanted sex from you and you've missed it?
That pretty pair of panties you said were your favorite. She's not wearing those based on coincidence. She wants you to notice and take charge.
PAY ATTENTION TO DETAIL AND DECIPHER HER ACTIONS.
That pretty pair of panties you said were your favorite. She's not wearing those based on coincidence. She wants you to notice and take charge.
PAY ATTENTION TO DETAIL AND DECIPHER HER ACTIONS.
#2: She has no idea what she actually wants.
Women are insanely emotional creatures. What she wants is rarely based on logic, but more how she feels in that very moment.
Have you ever gotten a woman angry right before you eat and suddenly she isn't hungry?
Exactly.
Women are insanely emotional creatures. What she wants is rarely based on logic, but more how she feels in that very moment.
Have you ever gotten a woman angry right before you eat and suddenly she isn't hungry?
Exactly.
Instead of letting her decide, take this to your advantage.
You now know that you can make your woman want something simply by making her feel a certain way.
Yes, that includes sex.
Always remember it is your responsibility to lead your woman, in both logic and emotions.
You now know that you can make your woman want something simply by making her feel a certain way.
Yes, that includes sex.
Always remember it is your responsibility to lead your woman, in both logic and emotions.
#3: Women do not want to see you cry.
No matter how much they tell you, they do NOT want you to be constantly emotionally available.
Women love men with drive, passion, and joy.
They hate men who are always crying, punching walls, and screaming.
No matter how much they tell you, they do NOT want you to be constantly emotionally available.
Women love men with drive, passion, and joy.
They hate men who are always crying, punching walls, and screaming.
This is not an excuse to be a brick wall and never show any emotion.
Men with zero emotion are boring.
There's a healthy middle in this, and it's not hard to figure out.
Just don't be a neurotic manchild, and you'll be fine.
Men with zero emotion are boring.
There's a healthy middle in this, and it's not hard to figure out.
Just don't be a neurotic manchild, and you'll be fine.
#4: True love will die if you don't feed the fire
So many men believe in this hollywoodesque ideal of what love embodies. That once those initial sparks fly, you'll be in love forever.
This is not true whatsoever. Relationships are work. You have to play the game properly.
So many men believe in this hollywoodesque ideal of what love embodies. That once those initial sparks fly, you'll be in love forever.
This is not true whatsoever. Relationships are work. You have to play the game properly.
Sometimes you have to be unavailable to her, sometimes you have to be cruel.
Just as many times you must surprise her with flowers and other spontaneous gifts.
The objective is to prevent life from becoming mundane. Of all things, women hate being bored the most.
Just as many times you must surprise her with flowers and other spontaneous gifts.
The objective is to prevent life from becoming mundane. Of all things, women hate being bored the most.
#5: Women are your partners in crime
Once again, Hollywood has given men a false perception that your woman should be your best friend in the world.
Women are quite typically more shallow. They're less ambitious. They do not make a good brother. Men are far more qualified.
Once again, Hollywood has given men a false perception that your woman should be your best friend in the world.
Women are quite typically more shallow. They're less ambitious. They do not make a good brother. Men are far more qualified.
Women are here to support you in a submissive role.
A man's purpose is to achieve greatness, a woman's purpose is to make his life easier so he can achieve it.
She will take on tasks that take up his time such as cleaning and cooking so he can focus on his aspirations.
A man's purpose is to achieve greatness, a woman's purpose is to make his life easier so he can achieve it.
She will take on tasks that take up his time such as cleaning and cooking so he can focus on his aspirations.
#6: Women should be financially free.
Men are providers. We've done this for hundreds of thousands of years, but suddenly this century demands women to pursue their own careers in the name of independence.
Yet women are far more miserable in this state. It goes against biology.
Men are providers. We've done this for hundreds of thousands of years, but suddenly this century demands women to pursue their own careers in the name of independence.
Yet women are far more miserable in this state. It goes against biology.
No matter how hard it gets on you, you should work your ass off until you have the ability to completely provide for your family. Your woman does not desire to take part in this, she has just felt pressured to in society.
If you can't provide, she will find someone who will.
If you can't provide, she will find someone who will.
#7: She is not worth fixing
See, when I was younger, I thought that I could skip the process of finding a high quality woman by "repairing" a low quality one
She will never be healed. You may think you're improving her, but the same destructive behaviors she had will resurface.
See, when I was younger, I thought that I could skip the process of finding a high quality woman by "repairing" a low quality one
She will never be healed. You may think you're improving her, but the same destructive behaviors she had will resurface.
This is not derived from your pure, bleeding heart.
You want to fix your women because you're a coward.
You're scared of the work it takes to become high quality, and even more afraid of high quality women rejecting you.
The quality of your woman reflects you.
FIX YOURSELF.
You want to fix your women because you're a coward.
You're scared of the work it takes to become high quality, and even more afraid of high quality women rejecting you.
The quality of your woman reflects you.
FIX YOURSELF.
Thanks for reading, friends.
If this thread gets enough engagement, I'll do a part 2.
If this thread gets enough engagement, I'll do a part 2.