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tw/ transphobia, kinkplay, trauma
i will say that when i wrote that fic touching on the transphobia surrounding the term "b*yp*ssy" i didn& #39;t fully understand the connotations behind it when it was regarded in kinkplay. i was only going off of the things i& #39;ve heard about.
i will say that when i wrote that fic touching on the transphobia surrounding the term "b*yp*ssy" i didn& #39;t fully understand the connotations behind it when it was regarded in kinkplay. i was only going off of the things i& #39;ve heard about.
i& #39;m just always afraid someone& #39;s going to connect the dots between that fic and the fact that i use the term on my hard kink account and call me out for it. so i& #39;m coming out now to say this before it happens.
kinkplay can regard a lot of dark, terrible fantasies, but usually only within consensual scenes and fiction. it& #39;s always important to remember that self-coping mechanisms are just that: self-coping mechanisms.
there& #39;s a tweet i rt& #39;d on my hard stan that covers it better. but an example would be i have paternal issues and have gone through some situations that have caused trauma. if i find a safe way to cope, why shouldn& #39;t i?
if i want to cope with when i had a complete loss of control by fantasising about being at a complete loss of control, to therefore replace the trauma with something better, i will. or by replacing my daddy issues by playing daddy.
