Since I was very young I maintained that most people are not that important as people make them seem- especially when it comes to your life trajectory and happiness. I maintain that because it has always reigned true.

People base a lot of their happiness, thoughts about themselves, sadness, memories, and even their own success around other people that they are in relationships with, friends, or family. I do not do any of that. Nobody is attached to any part of my life trajectory

They can be along for the ride but they will never be the main part of any story that I have in my life. This is also why I don’t have any depressions connected to any problems from the past, anxieties about meeting new people, or stopping myself. I always do what I want.

I can love people, be intimate with them, share long relationships with them – but they will never be the sole purpose of my sadness, happiness, or success. That will always be about me. I am the most important person to that, ever.