it& #39;s interesting to me, a bi asian american, that western stans are so vehement about which k-pop idols are gay and which ones are het when gay culture is different around the world. what may ping on the gaydars of lgbt+ asians may not ping for lgbt+ westerners, and vice versa

of course, i& #39;m a hypocrite, as i hope my bias is a wlw when she& #39;s probably straight and just likes dressing up as an e-girl while singing to kehlani https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">

i& #39;ll never know; i& #39;m just looking for representation where i know it& #39;s not going to be, only bc i want more lgbt+ asian media

if anyone somehow finds this thread and has recommendations of lgbt+ films featuring asians and/or other poc with happy endings (such as the handmaiden, the half of it, rafiki, etc.), please recommend them https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥺" title="Pleading face" aria-label="Emoji: Pleading face">