One of my main vocalists has resigned from my next album. She was initially in charge of singing 2 songs + vocal mixing for one other song, and I& #39;ve spent this week messaging countless different people to replace her. This is what I get for trusting ppl to keep their mouth shut
For some context, I was upset over something she did. So I chose to confide in a group of friends and rant to them about what happened. After that I specifically instructed them not to confront her, and to leave things be. Everything was okay between me and her and I didn& #39;t ...
... want to make matters worse than they already were. But guess what happened. Apparently some people had gone against my orders, and they had indeed confronted her. So she obviously got mad at me, and I got mad at my clique. But is my anger not justified as well?
I had trusted them because I was upset and I needed someone to go to to talk about my feelings, and instead they turned their very backs on me. No one in this group actually cares about other people, because if they did they would& #39;ve realised the trouble they were putting me into
I was going to leave everything alone and let time do it& #39;s job and heal me. But NOOOOOOOO, they just had to go and defy my very orders and make the situation more messy than it already is. Long story short I& #39;m the person who felt with the consequences of their actions.
All because my friends didn& #39;t listen to me, do you know what I got in return? My vocalist left my album, I had to spend time and MONEY looking for replacements. She argued with me, she blocked me, she told me she didn& #39;t trust me anymore. Her boyfriend had also lost trust with me,
At that time her boyfriend and I were close friends. This placed a huge dent on our friendship. And what else? I was kicked from her album which I was initially part of. She no longer wants to sing the solo album which we had planned in advance for next year.
All of this because I trusted a bunch of people to keep their fucking mouths shut and they didn& #39;t. Also what kind of normal person confronts someone who& #39;s being ranted about? Can& #39;t you just kind your own damn business? You guys had ruined MY LIFE. THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR IT.
I wish you fuckers could be in my position for once so you know how stressful it is to be me, and how much work and effort I put for all this music. Only for all that effort to go down the drain cuz your friends fucked you over even after you trusted them not to.
You can apologize in a million languages but it& #39;s not going to reverse the amount of damage you have caused. I have forgiven this group over many things before, but this is one of the things I will never forgive and will never forget. And I have every right not to.
You are fucking selfish, and you are jerks. You only care about yourself. That is why you went ahead to do something that I had specifically instructed you not to, because you didn& #39;t care about the amount of trouble you were putting me into.
And if you think it was as simple as her just being mad at me, you have no idea the chain of events that took place after. But it& #39;s not like you cared? Because at the end of the day I& #39;m the person who took all the bullets for the shit that you do, you only care about yourself.
If internet permitted me to climb through you have no clue how much I wish I could climb through it and slap y& #39;all. This is so unfair to me after everything I& #39;ve done for your ungrateful asses. I can& #39;t believe I trusted you, only to be thrown under the bus.
And you wonder why I have trust issues. If any of the culprits end up reading this thread, please don& #39;t bother apologizing to me. I& #39;m not going to forgive you over it and I stand by this. I don& #39;t want to forgive a bunch of people who& #39;s constantly caused nothing but trouble for me
And until you& #39;ve been in my position where you have to deal with the amount of shit I& #39;ve gone through cuz of you, will you then realise that a simple apology is not going to do anything. So save it.
End of rant.
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