i know a lot of us use the 11H for friendship, but i& #39;m thinking about the classical association with the 3H because, if i& #39;m being honest, based on both sign and rulership, my friends seem to consistently fit my 3H much better

i don& #39;t want to go by sign alone, but my 11H is virgo and my 3H is capricorn, and i don& #39;t have many close virgos but i have a frankly ridiculous number of cap moon friends. my 3H is ruled by saturn in pisces, and in addition to having many pisces friends throughout my life

i am frequently surrounded by saturnians. most of the people i& #39;ve been friends with over the last several years at least have had some prominent capricorn or aquarius. i have had some mercurial friends, but they are far outnumbered by saturnians