i know a lot of us use the 11H for friendship, but i'm thinking about the classical association with the 3H because, if i'm being honest, based on both sign and rulership, my friends seem to consistently fit my 3H much better

i don't want to go by sign alone, but my 11H is virgo and my 3H is capricorn, and i don't have many close virgos but i have a frankly ridiculous number of cap moon friends. my 3H is ruled by saturn in pisces, and in addition to having many pisces friends throughout my life

i am frequently surrounded by saturnians. most of the people i've been friends with over the last several years at least have had some prominent capricorn or aquarius. i have had some mercurial friends, but they are far outnumbered by saturnians