"Janay waly ko rasta dain, wasta nahi"
Janay waly ko wasta zaror daina chahye (aksar log jaty hi is lye hain k unhyn pukara jana pasnd hota hai, bulaya jana acha lagta ha). Janay waly kay janay mai hmara hissa nhi hona chahye, apni taraf sy puri koshish krni chahye k koi rishta,

koi dosty hm say na chootay. Koi apni marzi say bayshak jaye magar usko bhi aik aakhri awaz zuroor daini chahye or taaluq bachaa lainay ki aik akhri koshish zuroor krni chahye.
"Agar koi cheez jaanay walay ko na roknay pr majboor karty hai to wo hai hmaary anaa,

baki insan ki fitrat main narmi hai, taluq ko bacha laina hai.
Aksar hm logon kay sath effort krtay hain, or wo hmaray sath us intensity ki effort nhi krty, hm logo pr waqt lagaty hain jab k wo hmain apna waqt nahi daity, ye sab batain insan ko udaas to krti hain laikin

agar apki fitrat main khidmat hai, pyaari baat kr kay aglay ka din banana hai, or logon ko bharpoor waqt daina hai to ap k lye is baat ki ehmyat nhi hogy k apko wo vibe wapis mil rhy hai jo ap day rhy hain ya nahi.
Kch kay sath hm effort krtay hain, kch log hmary sath krty hain,

hmri koi effort zaya ni jati, bs aik tarf lagty hai or dusry taraf say wapis mil jti ha."
For me, self respect is all that matters, but now I'm of an opinion that investing ur vibes, time, emotions in ppl will never let ur self respect get hurt, even if u don't get the vibe back.

Jin logon ko khonay ka tasawwur nahi kr saktay, un logon pr chaahay jitna waqt lagana paray, lagaa jaayen, or banda or taaluq dono bachaa lain.
'KAL TARAPNAA PARAY YAAD MAIN JIN KI, ROK LO, ROOTH KAR UN KO JAANAY NA DO.'