Thread by @A_Abby_Abi, There are men who aren't trying to get into every woman's pants; [...]

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There are men who aren& #39;t trying to get into every woman& #39;s pants; men who know what they want & aren& #39;t interested in games.
They are few but they exist. Such men want to take their time to get to know you as a person before deciding if you& #39;re the one for them. While they& #39;re

Getting to know you, they& #39;ll treat you with utmost respect. It& #39;s not like they don& #39;t want or like sex, they do. But they& #39;ve disciplined themselves to rein the urge to every lady with a sexy bod on the bed. They know not every girl is worth expending their

virility on.
You were lucky to find one of those but you let your insecurity blind you and he slipped off your fingers.
When you visited him, he treated you like a queen but he didn& #39;t even try to kiss you.
At first, you thought he needed prodding like the other guys so you kept

Stalling and declaring, "I& #39;ll soon be going ooo" in order to urge him on. He obviously didn& #39;t get it because instead of drawing close to you like other guys would when they see "free meat" leaving untouched, he said, "okay. Let me get dressed."
This made you feel like a piece

of shit even though you weren& #39;t horny and didn& #39;t really want to have sex. You wanted to be wanted. It made you feel important because sex is a favour you do a guy. Uou& #39;d bought into the lie that if a man doesn& #39;t want to have you, it means there& #39;s something wrong with you.

Feeling rejected, you became vitriolic. You told yourself you& #39;re awesome & reminded yourself of all the men begging to have a taste of you.
No, it& #39;s not you. It& #39;s him. He& #39;s weak & not man enough. Maybe he& #39;s impotent.
That& #39;s what you go about telling people.

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