i had a 17 y.o slide in my dm’s & when told her she has no business being in my grown ass dm’s, she got mad ASF & said she has her own apartment, car, etc.. i need the youth to understand those things don’t make you grown & if someone my age tells you otherwise, theyre a predator

don’t get me wrong, i’m not talking shit about her or blaming her. this society has done a awful job at teaching the youth that large age gaps are predatory too.. & it doesn’t make it better that there are grown ass(21+) men & women not caring about said age gap.