I remember watching @bgurley& #39;s "Running Down a Dream" when it came out. At the time, I thought I was playing my own game — I wasn& #39;t.
Rewatching it strongly resonated with me.
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Rewatching it strongly resonated with me.
"Life is a use it or lose it proposition"
You only get one shot, so do what makes you the most happy. Use frameworks like regret minimization (popularized by Bezos) & ask yourself, "what will I regret NOT doing?"
You only get one shot, so do what makes you the most happy. Use frameworks like regret minimization (popularized by Bezos) & ask yourself, "what will I regret NOT doing?"
Bill introduces us to three luminaries who all pursued unique paths of passion and played their own game.
Each with a unique story, but shared threads.
Each with a unique story, but shared threads.
1. Bobby Knight.
Obsessed with basketball. At 22, he was an Asst. coach at Army, then Head Coach at 24. He befriended 5 of the top coaches. Built relationships; kept learning & leveling up.
Now: 902 D-1 wins, 11 Big-10 & 3 NCAA Championships, College Ball Hall of Fame.
Obsessed with basketball. At 22, he was an Asst. coach at Army, then Head Coach at 24. He befriended 5 of the top coaches. Built relationships; kept learning & leveling up.
Now: 902 D-1 wins, 11 Big-10 & 3 NCAA Championships, College Ball Hall of Fame.
2. Bob Dylan.
Obsessed with folk music. Hitchhiked from MSP to NYC with $10 and a guitar. He put himself in an environment w/ all the other folk artists. Surrounded himself with greatness & learned as much as he could.
Now: 100M albums, 11 Grammies, Oscar & a Nobel Prize.
Obsessed with folk music. Hitchhiked from MSP to NYC with $10 and a guitar. He put himself in an environment w/ all the other folk artists. Surrounded himself with greatness & learned as much as he could.
Now: 100M albums, 11 Grammies, Oscar & a Nobel Prize.
3. Daniel Meyer.
Obsessed with food. Worked in sales; LSAT planned until his uncle asked, "Why? You know you& #39;re supposed to open a restaurant"
Changed course. Quit job. Made a list of ppl to meet. Took schlep jobs in food.
Now: Founded @shakeshack + 16
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Obsessed with food. Worked in sales; LSAT planned until his uncle asked, "Why? You know you& #39;re supposed to open a restaurant"
Changed course. Quit job. Made a list of ppl to meet. Took schlep jobs in food.
Now: Founded @shakeshack + 16
Each of these luminaries exemplified 5 shared threads.
Note: none are about about status or money — they& #39;re about finding your lane and being relentless.
The sharper your approach, the more you& #39;ll attract the people and the resources to help you.
Note: none are about about status or money — they& #39;re about finding your lane and being relentless.
The sharper your approach, the more you& #39;ll attract the people and the resources to help you.
1. Find your Passion.
This should be a path that YOU choose, not what someone else chooses (e.g. parents). If you& #39;re chasing $ or status, you& #39;ll burn out (shout out to all you ex-mgmt consultants!)
You have to enjoy the schlep, not just the wins. It shouldn& #39;t feel like work.
This should be a path that YOU choose, not what someone else chooses (e.g. parents). If you& #39;re chasing $ or status, you& #39;ll burn out (shout out to all you ex-mgmt consultants!)
You have to enjoy the schlep, not just the wins. It shouldn& #39;t feel like work.
2. Hone Your Craft.
Choose your field. Study the greats & know the pioneers. Consider yourself an "expeditionary" & gather more information than everyone else.
Be obsessive & put yourself in the right environment. Always be learning.
Choose your field. Study the greats & know the pioneers. Consider yourself an "expeditionary" & gather more information than everyone else.
Be obsessive & put yourself in the right environment. Always be learning.
3. Develop Mentors.
Make a list of the people in your industry; read everything they write, watch every talk they give, listen to every interview.
Take every chance you can to meet them; ask questions, take notes, share this knowledge. Never stop.
Make a list of the people in your industry; read everything they write, watch every talk they give, listen to every interview.
Take every chance you can to meet them; ask questions, take notes, share this knowledge. Never stop.
4. Embrace Your Peers.
Seek deep friendships with those on the same journey (and prune those that aren& #39;t). If you& #39;re playing your own game, you won& #39;t need to worry about competition.
Discuss & debate ideas, celebrate wins, share best practices. Strive together.
Seek deep friendships with those on the same journey (and prune those that aren& #39;t). If you& #39;re playing your own game, you won& #39;t need to worry about competition.
Discuss & debate ideas, celebrate wins, share best practices. Strive together.
5. Be Gracious & Humble.
Give away the credit & show appreciation. Send gifts, write thank you notes, send over a @loom.
Pay it back when you can & do so relentlessly. It& #39;s a virtuous cycle.
Give away the credit & show appreciation. Send gifts, write thank you notes, send over a @loom.
Pay it back when you can & do so relentlessly. It& #39;s a virtuous cycle.
In the talk he gives a few more examples, but the points remain the same: play your own game.
In the spirit of the name of this talk, it& #39;s fitting to, as Bill did, end with a quote from Tom Petty.
In the spirit of the name of this talk, it& #39;s fitting to, as Bill did, end with a quote from Tom Petty.
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