I want you guys to be INDISPENSABLE

I want your friends, acquaintances, and family to feel that something is missing without your presence

I want you to have a mark in their hearts so deep you'll create a small legacy within.

But how do I do that, abed?

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(1)

Want to be indispensable? irreplaceable?

then CREATE VALUE.

to whom, Abed?

To these types of people:
1. Yourself
2. Your family/loved ones
3. Friends
4. Acquaintances
5. This world, and all that resides in it

How can you create value to the people above?

(2)

1. YOURSELF

numero uno in the list, you NEED to create value in, by, towards, and for yourself before everyone else

And it's pretty simple too, you just need to

RESPECT YOURSELF.

You are powerful, Your potential is limitless.
Your impact can be GIGANTIC

(3)

Respecting yourself simply means you stop treating yourself like shit.

You need to have a vision. A purpose. You need to constantly remind yourself that the steps you take will impact the world greatly

You don't do things that damage yourself, your confidence

(4)

You put the best oil in your car to have better mileage, but you skimp on the food you take, that can affect YOUR OWN MILEAGE?

You meticulously put antiviruses on your PC, but you don't filter the noise and information that FILLS YOUR MIND?

Make it make sense

(5)

YOU ARE BORN A SHARP BLADE, READY TO STAB, CHOP, AND SLASH ALL ADVERSITIES, YET YOU'RE TURNING YOURSELF INTO A MERE BUTTER KNIFE

All the value you emit stems from YOU. The quality of what you give is dependent on your greatness.

It starts from YOU.

(6)

2. YOUR FAMILY AND LOVED ONES

If you're a man, you protect your family, your wife, your kids. You must not be the one who runs first in a crisis

If you're a woman, you care, you're warm, you're not supposed to be arrogant, you are the model of your kids.

(7)

People, don't treat your spouses like shit.
You both are the pillars of the house, you don't crumble the other pillar to make your self bigger. Release thy ego

Call your mom more, your dad, your grandparents if they're alive. Good or bad, they're the reason you're here

(8)

Your siblings are the ones who know you most. You don't fight them for some worldly inheritance or something, You'll only create a big pit to fall over in the future

Your kids are a mirror of your values . How they talk, think, and feel depends on how you mold them

(9)

You HAVE a responsibility to mold them into someone that will be great, if not greater than you.

You rigorously teach them morals, core values, ideals, and things not taught mainstream

TEACH THEM HOW TO THINK

few people actually know how to

(10)

3.FRIENDS

If you're a true friend, don't think twice about holding a friend accountable

You don't let them sink into the depravity of drugs, gambling, or alcoholism

Promote their achievements, be honest about their faults

If they won't listen, leave them

(10)

Seems heartless, but it's better than staying and implicitly agreeing to their mediocrity, they will only think what they're doing is right and proceed into further downfall

When you level up, you help them level up. When you fall, you don't bring them down by jealousy

(11)

Exude value in your close-knit social circle

Everyone in there must have similar ideals, values, and ambitions as you. GREATNESS.

You know you ain't mediocre. Let them know that they aren't too, Make them take regular action, Teach them what you know and learn from them.

(12)

4.ACQUAINTANCES

Every acquaintance is a potential friend, but not everyone will be

Regardless, they're your network. Some people you know may have interests that conflict with yours but that doesn't mean you can't cooperate with them

Be open-minded

(13)

Make them feel you're worth contacting may it be for an opportunity or crisis

Make them see you as a trustworthy man who does the job efficiently,

Keep up with them sometimes too. Forget friends, you won't gain an acquaintance by only giving effort on the first week

(14)

5.THIS WORLD

YOU ARE GREAT. Your purpose here isn't simply to improve yourself, you need to create a mark to be truly considered great

This world isn't simply material, this isn't a prison. What you perceive it to be is what it'll be

You are blessed to be here.

(15)

There are a ton of ways to reach your destination

Don't use underhanded means to get to that. Don't exploit people for your gain lest your conscience haunts you at night

If it doesn't, you're sick. Have some morals. You failed number 1. Fill the void in your heart.

(16)

You think you're valuable because you have this and that? By using what? Despicableness?

This world despises you. Yes, you left a mark. The kind of mark much like the acne marks people are dying to remove

Your mark must be exalted, not despised.

(17)

You have a duty to create something for the bigger picture

Something that brings the innate greatness in people even in a very small way

Help restore people's faith in humanity, not sink it further down the drain.

You're only great and valuable if you make others great.

(18)

Be a beacon of positivity

Be a person with an all-ecompassing purpose

Leave a worthy mark

Be truly valuable!