I have a friend since high school who I haven’t spoken to in months. We talked maybe 1-2 times weekly, but I haven’t answered their call or text in maybe 2-3 months. My spirit hasn’t been moved to. I don’t have the energy to unpack it for myself or explain it to them.

Maybe that makes me an asshole. I’ll be that. What I won’t be is having the same conversations I don’t want to have.

To be totally honest, I’ve been showing up differently in all my relationships lately. Prioritizing what I do and don’t need at any given moment. Everybody not gonna like it. They may opt out. Godspeed.