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Okay, hi, I& #39;m gonna talk about something,,, pretty personal because it seems to me, that there is a lot of misunderstandings within this situation and it has gotten entirely out of hand, to the point where we may need to take legal action. (1/?)
(Also, my apologies, this may be all over the place bc I& #39;m typing this @ 4 am)
For clarification, I am talking about the "abusive" roommate situation going on at XULA. If you know what I& #39;m referring to then, I would appreciate it if you would give this a read. (2/?)
Some disclaimers;;
Tw: topics relating to abuse, blood + self injury
I am the younger sibling to the roomate who was the supposed "aggressor" in the situation, so if you believe that makes me biased, that& #39;s fine, I understand, but please hear me out bc I have my own acc (3/?)
Tw: topics relating to abuse, blood + self injury
I am the younger sibling to the roomate who was the supposed "aggressor" in the situation, so if you believe that makes me biased, that& #39;s fine, I understand, but please hear me out bc I have my own acc (3/?)
Of interacting with the "victim" before the incidents occurred.
I will refer to the "aggressor" as & #39;Z& #39; and the "victim" as & #39;A& #39;. Everyone good? Alright, let& #39;s start. (4/?)
I will refer to the "aggressor" as & #39;Z& #39; and the "victim" as & #39;A& #39;. Everyone good? Alright, let& #39;s start. (4/?)
Let me start off by saying that because we& #39;re siblings, Z and I have known each other our entire lives. They are the most benevolent, peaceful, & honest person I know. Like normal siblings, we have our differences, but I know that I wouldn& #39;t trade them for the world. (5/?)
They& #39;ve never even gotten into a physical fight before, they would let themselves be hurt before even THINKING of hurting anyone else. (6/?)
Honestly, if they were truly "abusive", I would& #39;ve stepped out of my comfort zone + try to combat my social anxiety years ago and tell others the truth, which is what I& #39;m trying to do now. I love Z, thats why I& #39;m sticking up for them. (7/?)
It& #39;s so frustrating seeing them being lied about by people that have never even had a single conversation with Z. People who don& #39;t even want nor care about Z& #39;s side of the story. People who have decided to take A& #39;s side automatically instead. (8/?)
To be honest, I am still confused as to why A would do this in the first place when we& #39;ve (me, Z , our dad + his fiance) treated them with nothing but kindness?? (9/?)
My acc with A:
When Z found out that they may be in Hurricane Laura& #39;s path, they asked our dad if A could stay over to avoid the storm and he said yes. When Z + A finally came, we were all cool with each other. They even stayed long enough to celebrate my bday. (10/?)
When Z found out that they may be in Hurricane Laura& #39;s path, they asked our dad if A could stay over to avoid the storm and he said yes. When Z + A finally came, we were all cool with each other. They even stayed long enough to celebrate my bday. (10/?)
We all played Just Dance together, me + A listened to K-Pop, A even helped Z make my birthday cake + milkshakes. If A was so afraid of being near Z, why did they agree to stay at our house in the first place? I understand that victims have different mindsets, but this is (11/?)
quite confusing, considering Z is the "abuser". We gave A shelter + food when they were unable to go home during that time, and the fact that A is indirectly harassing Z through their own friends is sort of ungrateful in my eyes. Z only wanted what was was best (12/?)
for A, all Z was trying to do was be a good friend. And A decided to do this for what? Just to blame someone for why they made the conscious decision for damaging a window + injuring themselves? All because they got impatient when the door wasn& #39;t opened for them? When (13/?)
no one was aware that A was out there in the first place? To my understanding, A was given the chance to speak up about any problems they had with Z and their s/o, and they chose not to, just as they chose to take their anger out on that window. Z did not force A to put (14/?)
their hand through the window, nor did they convince or persuade them to do so. For you to try and blame Z + their s/o as the aggressors is a bit foolish, imo. Especially, when they were not even aware of any problems/concerns that A had that they could& #39;ve made known. (15/?)
Also, another thing was bothering me. If A was able to call their people while their arm was bleeding + be escorted and if they were waiting for "hours" to be let in, why did they not call Z + their other roommates to let them in, since they had their phone? (16/?)
(Okay, so since I have work later today, I& #39;m going to hold on this thread for rn. If you would like to discuss anything about this situation, then by all means, do so. All I ask is that you respect my pronouns/identity when speaking/referring to me, and keep it civil.)
(For those who made it to this point, I truly appreciate it + thank you for taking the time to read this.)
