idk why it’s so hugely socially preferred to agree to spend the rest of your life with whatever person you happen to be dating in your late 20s/early 30s.

seems much more fulfilling to date a series of people for a year or two at a time (with long single periods between)

i get that raising a kid is a collaborative process that should only be done by two people that are stable but that’s like one obligation. what are the true perks?

there are economic reasons reasons for trad cohabiting monogamy but if you make enough money to not entangle yourself with another person why would you

i think celebrities, who are constantly getting divorced, show that ideal relationship length is just a few years

when you have two people that are financial independent and recognize their own worth, relationships don’t get bad because they end when they should