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This is supposed to be scary? I looked at that, thought it was hot, and set it as my wallpaper. Here& #39;s the version without words: https://twitter.com/diebelra/status/1306319300094033920">https://twitter.com/diebelra/...
He looks like he& #39;s enjoying what& #39;s going on. Everybody likes having their neck kissed, men deserve to feel good and be taken care of too. It& #39;s not a submissive scary thing unless you& #39;re a dork
fanfiction authors could spin a 300k word AU off the look on his face, and I promise you it wouldn& #39;t be "he& #39;s sOoOoO scared"
I& #39;m trying to find the words to explain why that photo is the pure emotional opposite of stereotypical portrayals of men in sex (yes I know they& #39;re clothed, work with me here) and not just because of the role reversal
I& #39;m going to have to think hard about this to find the right words. It& #39;s like, sensual without having Manly Performativeness which I& #39;m not sure I& #39;ve ever seen before. And it& #39;s not Female Dominance either, she& #39;s not pinning him down or anything. It& #39;s gentle but intense?
Maybe it& #39;s in the body language; neither of them are tense or uncomfortable. She& #39;s acting on clear desire and he& #39;s feeling good and it& #39;s a remarkable portrayal of a dynamic I just don& #39;t see enough of. Men receiving non graphic pleasure is def not common at all
Bc men being on the receiving end of sensuality is so unusual that oBvIoUsLy it& #39;s horror but actually it just looks hot bc ~surprise~ women like that shit. If it was supposed to look like horror he probably shouldn& #39;t look like his brain is melting out his ears from feeling good
I still haven& #39;t quite nailed my thoughts down but rest assured, they have something to do with performative masculinity, the ideas we have about what men are supposed to like, erogenous zones, acceptable sexual dynamics, and how men have no fuckin clue what turns women on
@mingerschlag I feel like you might get what I& #39;m failing to say. Does any of that make sense??
Okay ALSO I object to the implication that a woman doing anything other than just taking what some dude is giving her is inherently 1) dominating and 2) scary. Like, what does that say about your sex life if women doing things like kissing a man& #39;s neck from behind is scary
ADDITIONALLY, it& #39;s pretty gross that so many people automatically went femdom. Why can& #39;t they both be "equal" in this without y& #39;all making it weird? Why is a woman acting on her desire (instead of waiting for a man to do it) dominating? That& #39;s not really feminist of y& #39;all
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