It’s time to share your #WednesdayWisdom! Tag a friend and let’s go. #SBCCHAT #RelationshipAdvice #AdultsOnly

Q1. In my Zoom class. My girl busts in and throws my used condom at me. I’m catching hands, as my other girl (in my zoom class) talks shit cuz she didn’t know I had a girl. My girl yells, “always cheating w/ that little weak ass .” I thought my sex was good. Help. #SBCCHAT

Q2. I met my boyfriend while I volunteered at a homeless shelter. Few months later he & his 8-yo son move in. I found out that his son sets things on fire late at night whenever he’s disciplined. I’ve lost clothes and purses. Boyfriend lost his old house. WTF to do? #SBCCHAT

Q3. Celebrated my bday w a few friends & I got high. Woke up to sex noises—my girl & my homeboy in the other room. I tear our house up fighting him. I black out (I guess). My head was bleeding & I found his belt buckle in my couch. She says I dreamt it. Thoughts? #SBCCHAT

Q4. Fiancé and I are white. His best friend is Black. We hooked up one time. My baby was white when she was born BUT she’s getting darker every day. Brownish ears, curly hair, and people are beginning to notice. My wedding is December. Bestie and I are scared AF. HELP. #SBCCHAT

Q5. (1of2) Lost my finger tip at work so I’ve been on disability for 4 years. Wife braids hair in the kitchen for extra $$$. Money is good but last time she cooked there was hair in the greens. I mentioned it; she called me a fingerless muthafka in front of her client. #SBCCHAT

Q5. (2of2) She didn’t have to embarrass me like that. I was hurt. I started flirting w/her clients and slept with a few. I wanted her to find out. Now I just don’t want her anymore. Kids are involved—HER kids. Toss them out & move on? ADVICE. #SBCCHAT

Q6. First time dating an African brother. When we’re together, ALL of his attention is on me. His phone rings & he ignores it. We’re together 4 days out of the week but those other days he ghosts me; doesn’t respond to my calls/texts. What’s going on here? #SBCCHAT

Thank you for joining the #SBCCHAT TWEETHEARTS! If you have a love problem please submit your questions confidentially to [email protected]! See you next week! Keisha & Corrie