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TOXIC, MANIPULATIVE, & ABUSIVE EX-BOYFRIEND | a thread;
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So yung cousin ko broke up with her boyfriend because of the following reasons (keep reading):
PINAKA MALALA IS THIS THING HE DID TWO WEEKS AGO (see video) walang kasalanan cousin ko dito, he was being very manipulative for a specific SHALLOW reason
PINAKA MALALA IS THIS THING HE DID TWO WEEKS AGO (see video) walang kasalanan cousin ko dito, he was being very manipulative for a specific SHALLOW reason
may sinali akong friend na guy sa Valorant and gusto nung boyfriend ng cousin ko na sabihan ng cousin ko yung friend ko na yun ng “bibs” (“pabibo”), my cousin declined kasi it didn’t feel right to her. Isa pa, hindi din kilala ng cousin ko yung friend ko.
Here’s another manipulative act he did to my cousin, he asked my cousin to STAY AWAY from friends & family. Pinatapon niya yung polaroid pics with family and friends, gifts, letters, etc. and while she was doing it he said, “Putangina mo ang bagal mo, gagawin mo ba or hindi?”
Take note, all this time.. eto pala yung reason kung bakit kami nilalayuan ng cousin ko. We had no idea.
Ayaw nung guy sa lahat ng related sa cousin ko.
Ayaw nung guy sa lahat ng related sa cousin ko.
Lagi niyang minumura yung cousin ko kahit na SIMPLENG bagay lang; habang naglalaro ng video games sasabihan siya na “Ang bobo mo naman wala kang kwenta, Putangina mo, etc”
that was so much verbal abuse on my cousin’s part
that was so much verbal abuse on my cousin’s part
Yung insecurities niya pinapasa niya sa cousin ko, sasabihin niya yung cousin ko ang may ganong insecurity where in fact sakanya insecurity talaga yon.
My cousin performs & is really good at singing & modeling - etong guy sinasabi sakanya na mga artista daw PAPANSIN.
My cousin performs & is really good at singing & modeling - etong guy sinasabi sakanya na mga artista daw PAPANSIN.
Yung mga artista/influencers daw ATTENTION SEEKERS. Kung itutuloy daw niya yung pagpeperform niya & paggrow ng socials niya, hindi siya kuntento sa boyfriend niya.
He asked my cousin to deactivate her accounts a couple of times. Kinocontrol din niya mga pinopost ng cousin ko.
He asked my cousin to deactivate her accounts a couple of times. Kinocontrol din niya mga pinopost ng cousin ko.
Sobrang bipolar din, like this one. Imagine anong mararamdaman ng cousin ko with these kinds of messages for 8 months. SOBRANG TWISTED.
His mom also asked my cousin na patawarin siya and during the call narinig ng cousin ko yung sinabi ng ex-boyfriend niya
“HINDI NAMAN MARUNONG MAGPATAWAD MGA YAN KASI DI SILA KRISTYANO”
“HINDI NAMAN MARUNONG MAGPATAWAD MGA YAN KASI DI SILA KRISTYANO”
and this one too, my cousin was in so much pain already.
After ng lahat ng ginawa niya, after all the chances my cousin gave to him, nagawa niya pang siraan cousin ko sa “mga kaibigan” niya.
After ng lahat ng ginawa niya, after all the chances my cousin gave to him, nagawa niya pang siraan cousin ko sa “mga kaibigan” niya.
His so-called friends na siniraan niya sa amin before. Now he’s back to being friends with them. PARE-PAREHAS LANG SILANG MAGK’KAIBIGAN.
ALSO, this quarantine umamin mga classmate namin na hinipuan nila kami while we were sleeping in class (dati pa to) including my cousin and this was his reponse:
Pinapalabas niya na gusto pa daw ng cousin ko na nahipuan siya, LIKE WTF?? Hindi nga kami aware about this.
Pinapalabas niya na gusto pa daw ng cousin ko na nahipuan siya, LIKE WTF?? Hindi nga kami aware about this.
After this break up, he turned things upside down and made my cousin the PROBLEM. Yung cousin ko daw ang may kasalanan kung bakit siya ganon. Yung cousin ko din daw ang may kailangan ng professional help from a psych.
To be continued...
This is a wake up call to all girls out there, DON’T IGNORE THE RED FLAGS. Stand up for yourself and DON’T LET ANYONE STOP YOU FROM SHARING YOUR STORY. I hope this could help other girls out there to never tolerate this kind of treatment. LEAVE. if you have to.
