I don’t condone cheating by the way, you shouldn’t do that.. BUT on the grand scale of things it really not that deep. What happens after they do the 1st time does.

Anything done out of anger or spite, that’s admitted to... you gotta let slide. Especially if they are honest about it. Sex one time with someone ain’t serious, if they double back for round 2 then okay be mad.

You get a few drinks in a chick fighting with her boyfriend and she gonna tell everyone within 20 feet how bad you suck, some dude gonna have his cape on and it’s a 50/50 chance he capitalized.

One question: was what happened enough for to actually be mad? If it was, then you gotta decide whether or not that dude is someone she gonna want to further pursue, or he got lucky.

Then you gotta really ask this one. Can that dude provide for her more than me? If he can, and you like the girl you better get your shit trouble. If he dweeb, then you can actually spin this in your favor

Now you can take this two places if he puts your girl in a better situation than you provide... you can be pussy about it and go cheat back. This will result in A. Losing your chick. B: never getting her back unless you’re a rebound.. that ain’t what you want.

Option 2 is to look yourself in the mirror and figure out how to take care of her better. You can use who they choose to be with as a learning experience. She clearly came back, she likes you.. but something he has you don’t, so show growth and provide that for them

The part is when cheat with a dweeb. Now that jokes can fly. You can take it personal if you gotta own the rights to that vagina.. but in reality it’s not yours. It’s theirs. She clearly came back... she knows more than you do he’s a lame.

In my studies, as long as they aren’t planning the cheating before, it more than likely was a neglect/upset decision head space rather than the guy out at the night club in search of someone to make her special for the night.. if you don’t do that for your girl, someone will

If your chick cheating and she was never a hoe, it is your fault she is. Be a man, take accountability as long as she’s willing to do the same. Ask questions. Why did you do it. Maybe you wack in bed, maybe you made her feel ugly that day. Maybe she’s just an undercover hoe.

Now if the dude is cheating, there is a lot more reasons why, and Only one of them means he don’t actually love his chick. Get through this thread back any judgment.

For example. If a dude has cheated, 90/100 there was no reason. Literally. They see a hot chick, they wanna hit, and they don’t want to speak again. Y’all rent movies all the time, they don’t stick around too long do they?