i’ve been thinking a lot about the way camila’s mind works, and i wanted to make a thread about it, so here it is!

first of all, i wanted to make clear that right now i’m studying the bases of psychology, and a lot of things here are explained in a way that’s easier to understand, if anyone has more information that could be used in this thread you can tell me and i’ll add it

also, i’ll be referring to camila as a little plant or seed, since multiple things here could be related to self growth and how we can help her !

when we shower camila with love, it’s obvious she’s growing. but just like that, when we do too much, she can be affected by certain things or situations, since she’s more sensitive than the rest, and that’s something everyone knows

but just like we shower her with love, there’s people who take advantage of that to say bad things, that makes her get stuck, and stop growing. she might feel like she will never go back to growing

and even if we try and tell her otherwise, her mind keeps telling her the same thing: she’s small and worthless

just like every plant, she has her very own individual pot, which we can represent as her mind. it’s very obvious that we can’t take her out of that pot, since she’s grown there

but of course there’s always someone that takes care of the plant, this would be us, and how we motivate her into growing is what helps her more! cause she feels like she’s not alone in all of this, and it makes a huge difference

we cant force her into going out of her ideas, but what we can do is help her grow and change little things in a way that’s healthy

what happens when she’s big enough? she can go out of that pot she’s been in, and go to a much more bigger field, filled with a lot more plants and flowers that have been though the same things, and help her feel like understood

it’s obvious those old ideas are still there, but since she now has a place that makes her feel safe and protected in a different way, she doesn’t think of those awful things that much

⁃how can we help?

when we make hashtags , or fan works for her, there’s still a lot of people that tell her that the past doesn’t matter, and i totally understand where you are coming from, but when we talk about the past, it automatically makes her think about it

what we can actually do is make her feel excited for what’s coming, what future experiences she’ll have ( like touring, new music, or even her new movie! ) cause by doing that, it’s like we are reassuring her that we’ll be there when that happens

of course she won’t feel happy all the time, but also when we she knows many people are there for her, and are growing just the way she does, those things slowly start going away

i just felt like doing this so we are more aware of our words, and the things we post for her, since obviously there could be some kind of trigger deep down that we don’t know about

i hope this can help, and if anyone would like to translate this (since i’m doing it in both english and spanish) feel free to reach out to me through dms !