Ladies:
Please stop being offended when a man goes to a woman that you’ve determined as your lesser. As we know, men want to be wanted—no matter how confident they are or seem. They love beautiful independent women but many can not date them due to insecurities + feeling like

“this woman could do so much better than me + could up and leave when she want” the impact of falling in love w/ a woman and feeling like that, could send some over the edge if that situation actually happened that way. So to avoid that, they’ll go to a woman they know they

can be a ‘prize’ to. On some ‘I’m the best she can do. She needs me”. You may have been truly in love w/ the man + given him all he needed but THEY self sabotaged.
1. By going to someone who really can’t feed them in the positive ways they need. So it’s probable their

growth will be stunted.
2. Bc the woman they want they aren’t willing to upgrade themselves on a personal level to not only potentially be with her (no guarantee) but also having themselves right to attract their real person later in life. So it’s not about you. I been preaching

this all week. It’s them. Nothing is a personal attack unless you
accept it as one.