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i've tried to figure things out with her but it's come to my attention that she is lying to me. @/cheolcoups8 is romantically pursuing someone who is 16 yrs old, and this isn't the first time
i've tried to figure things out with her but it's come to my attention that she is lying to me. @/cheolcoups8 is romantically pursuing someone who is 16 yrs old, and this isn't the first time
the first time happened when she was 19 (first yr of college) and he was 17 (senior yr of high school). i told her i was wary about her talking to him with those intentions. she told me they were going to wait until he was 18 to be official but also told me they had kissed
i didn't push anymore because i didn't know what to do and when they didn't work out after a couple of weeks, i was relieved. the second time happened when she was 20 and told me she started talking to someone from discord who was 16 and off island
this time, i was going to address this and tell her this is wrong and she should stop, but before i could, she told me that something happened with her family and she couldn't talk anymore. i respected that and told her we should talk about it another time though
then i went through something personally and i wasn't talking to anyone for a month. skip to now, i'm talking to people again and happen to see a tweet of hers say boyfriend. i dm her curious and she said "oh, we're not official, we're taking things slow but he makes me happy"
i didn't think of anything at the time but a couple of days later i realize it might still be the 16 yr old from discord. so i call her and i tell her that i'm uncomfortable and i want to know if who she's talking to now is the same 16yr old or a similar situation
she tells me that the 16yr old from discord didn't work out and she's talking to someone new, who's on island but he's 16 again and she was hesitant to tell me earlier because she didn't want to upset me. i tell her this is illegal and i want her to make the right decision
she told me she needed time to think. i gave it to her but i realize i shouldn't have done this. that phone call/conversation happened this past saturday, septemeber 12th. today, september 15th, just a couple of hours ago, i call her again to figure out what she decided to do
she tells me she thought about it and still wants to pursue a relationship with him. she said she knows the age difference is wrong but they're not really doing anything physically and they're going to wait until he's 20 to be official
i tell her i have to speak up about this, i can't keep this to myself. so she said she was going to talk with him, end things, and just be friends. i believed her. but someone just showed me a screenshot of her saying in a gc, she's going to keep the relationship with him lowkey
i'm sorry i didn't speak up when it happened the first time, i've been clouded by my friendship with her. i shouldn't have made excuses for her or give her the benefit of the doubt when she was clearly giving me signs that she didn't want to stop her actions
there are no excuses as to why i didn't stop this before and i needed to have done better. i understand if people are angry with me after this as well
