Let& #39;s start here; There& #39;s no emotion in this life that is gendered. None.

So, of course men need reassurance. So what you see as security is that many men haven& #39;t learned to vocalise their emotional needs cos that takes vulnerability and often, we see that as weak & & #39;unmanly& #39; https://twitter.com/shallomszn/status/1305570441457664006">https://twitter.com/shallomsz...

Secondly, all our lives our intrinsic value has been over-estimated, to us and to women from Gender Reveals, to sports & toys, to gender pay.

So genuinely, we are less likely to ask for validation when we view ourselves as above it, as & #39;greater& #39;, cos our societal system says so.

Lastly, the dynamics of hetero relationships have been built on previous two points.
So we don& #39;t need reassurance cos women already reassure us with behaviour.

And as has been pointed to us, we have The Audacity™. We& #39;ll go where we& #39;re treated better rather than ask for it.