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All Things Anal [THREAD]
The most important thing is TRUST. You have to trust that your partner won’t hurt you. But most importantly, you’ve got to trust that your body won’t betray you. Which takes us to confidence.
CONFIDENCE is key. You need to prepare sufficiently for anal because by doing so, you reduce the risk of any embarrassing and weird accidents. If you’re confident that all is good down there, you’ll be able to relax and actually enjoy it.
How to prepare:
1. ANAL TRAINING
I would personally recommend using a butt plug to get yourself used to the feeling. You will feel PRESSURE. But knowing that it’s a normal reaction and not your body preparing to poop will calm your anxiety.
1. ANAL TRAINING
I would personally recommend using a butt plug to get yourself used to the feeling. You will feel PRESSURE. But knowing that it’s a normal reaction and not your body preparing to poop will calm your anxiety.
2.DOUCHE/ENEMA.
Cleanse your bowel with some warm water through your anus. This will help expel any faecal matter that you could be worried about passing during anal sex.
Cleanse your bowel with some warm water through your anus. This will help expel any faecal matter that you could be worried about passing during anal sex.
3. LUBE
Invest in a good, water-based lubricant. This will prevent tearing and discomfort, make penetration a lot easier, and maximize pleasure. Here are some reliable drug store brands:
Invest in a good, water-based lubricant. This will prevent tearing and discomfort, make penetration a lot easier, and maximize pleasure. Here are some reliable drug store brands:
4. FOREPLAY
You need to take your time to relax and get comfortable. Don’t rush yourself or your partner. Some ass eating, booty rubs, even fingering goes a long way. You’re supposed to want and enjoy this, okay?
You need to take your time to relax and get comfortable. Don’t rush yourself or your partner. Some ass eating, booty rubs, even fingering goes a long way. You’re supposed to want and enjoy this, okay?
5. BREATHING
Breathe OUT when he puts it IN. Use your breaths to manage your bodies reactions, instead of jerking away as that could hurt you and your partner. Please remember to breathe.
Breathe OUT when he puts it IN. Use your breaths to manage your bodies reactions, instead of jerking away as that could hurt you and your partner. Please remember to breathe.
6. PENETRATION
For females: A personal cheat code is to play with your vagina to maximize pleasure and to “distract” your body from the invasive feeling of anal penetration. You’ll also realize that anal aids to your clitoral/vaginal pleasure. It feels amazing.
For females: A personal cheat code is to play with your vagina to maximize pleasure and to “distract” your body from the invasive feeling of anal penetration. You’ll also realize that anal aids to your clitoral/vaginal pleasure. It feels amazing.
For males: stimulation of your prostate is said to provide pleasure so anal sex is likely to be more satisfying for you. However, the cheat code still applies.
For the three major/known hermaphrodite sexes, I don’t know enough about the intricacies of your genitalia to comment. My apologies 
Penetration is meant to be gentle and gradual. Don’t rush it! The last thing you want to do is to rupture your sphincter or tear your anal cavity. With time, you can become more adventurous.
7. CLEAN UP/POST PENETRATION
You may want to poop. Or not.
You’ll definitely experience some tenderness and that’s normal given that you’ve just accommodated a foreign body in your anal cavity.
You may want to poop. Or not.
You’ll definitely experience some tenderness and that’s normal given that you’ve just accommodated a foreign body in your anal cavity.
