You can love/be in love with someone but that doesn’t mean you should be with them. Hard pill to swallow.

There’s going to be people who you come around you’ll love and they hurt you/it doesn’t work out. Let that, fade. When things don’t work, it wasn’t for you. You don’t need to keep staying hoping they’ll change. The universe gave you the option to find love elsewhere.

I know many want to stay with someone because of attachments. But love shouldn’t hurt you this much to want to still be with someone like that. You’re obsessed with the feeling they give you. That’s not love.

Love isn’t supposed to hurt you or make you second guess someone. You can “love” them still, but that doesn’t justify getting back with them.