An example of a difference in how I treat guys and girls:

With a guy on twitter I'll feel comfortable liking 20 of his tweets in a row to show enthusiasm, this kind of energy is generally taken positively and helps me make friends.
With a girl I will hesitate to do the same because I fear looking eager or creepy.
In general I will show a lot more energy/initiative in the early stages of a relationship with guys, and I'll be more shy or distant with girls, which probably explains why I have more guy friends than girls.
But I'd like to get to the point where I can express my true energy fully with people of both genders
So the question is am I poorly calibrated and should turn up my energy level with girls?

Or my fear is valid and being more high energy *will* turn off some girls, but I should do it anyways?
My guess is the second, but for the sake of unblocking myself I want to play around with being more high energy and enthusiastic towards girls anyways.
WHY YALL BLOWING UP THIS THREAD LMAO

THIS IS JUST ONE OF MY MANY NOTES TO SELF

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