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Aquarius are not the cold people you think they are, they’re just used to being alone and being denied emotional attention and support so often times they’re used to their own corner, their own space and do their own things. Isolation is not something foreign to Aquarians because
it’s basically a solace for them, especially when they’re feeling alone, unheard, undesirable or just do not feel connected with others so instead of wasting time trying to get certain attention, they ignore it and just draw back in themselves to find some type of peace of mind
From childhood, if an Aquarian grows up in a home where their emotional needs and concerning behavioral problems are overlooked. They will grow distant and have this issue or desensitization towards emotions, as emotions are a sore but foreign topic for them, especially if they-
were the reserved child, who was put in the perfect box and were told to just be grateful, do not make any noise, just sit quietly and do as told (similar to Taurus in a way), or, they were the child that would go to their parents from time to time trying to talk about an issue-
or somethin that has been bugging them extremely badly from time to time but either gets dismissed or shut down, or even often times ignored excessively, to the point where they just stopped talking about their emotional needs or issues and just either ignore them or face them-
alone. Due to this, they have trouble with vulnerability, and may come off as emotionless in emotional issues or topics and seem ‘cold’. When in reality, they are not cold, they just do not understand how to be emotional or how to work/tap into their emotions like some do.
Which is why Aquarian placements take time to fall in love, take time to trust and take time to be vulnerable, it’s things they have to come to terms with, things they have to learn to understand, adapt to and feel comfortable with. One of the biggest things with Aquarius is
letting people into their space, their comfort grounds, what makes Aquarius feel comfortable, and having that person in their space means they’re growing to trust you with bit by bit but it’s a slow process that requires patience to understand and not try to rush
them cause if they feel rushed and suffocated, they will shut you out with a quickness and you’ll have a hard time gettin back into them and building that same trust level y’all had before. You need to be patient with Aquarius placements when it comes to them building a bond with
you and building levels of trust with you, along with letting you into certain boundaries they don’t let most even try to insert themselves into cause they do not play when it comes to boundaries and their space. Which is why you may feel that they are distant, especially if you
are someone who is big on codependency, excessive affection and big on always being vulnerable and transparent, Aquarius that are like this ARE NOT FOR YOU. I would suggest staying away from them cause you may cause unneeded stress on both sides, which will end up in a discourse
a bad one at that.
Getting to know an Aquarius will always take time because will most likely not tell you anything or mainly anything until they are comfortable with you, even then, they may not say a lot until they actually feel ready within themselves to actually tell you
Getting to know an Aquarius will always take time because will most likely not tell you anything or mainly anything until they are comfortable with you, even then, they may not say a lot until they actually feel ready within themselves to actually tell you
what needs to be said about their personal life, emotional life, insecurities, struggles, etc
Again, patience is key for it is something that takes time.
Break that trust though, you out.
They gon dip outta ya life like a thief in the night.
Again, patience is key for it is something that takes time.
Break that trust though, you out.
They gon dip outta ya life like a thief in the night.
Aquarius care, they just do not know how to explain or express their care. Same as they are not emotionless, they feel emotions, they get emotionally overwhelmed too, they just do not know how to tap into their emotions properly other than pushing them in the back and actin like
they do not exist when they very much do. You can see Aquarius gettin excited when it comes to things they find solace or comfort in, a little hyped when it comes to debates or talking about humanitarian or social issues or warmth in they eyes when it comes to some animals
Aquarius can also be some of the funniest people you ever get to talk with or encounter. They’re great for when you want to take your mind off of certain issues and just chill. Jokes tend to be a coping mechanism for them as a way to deflect personal issues so they may come off-
as not serious or careless, when they can be serious and they can care about certain topics, they’re just used to not having specific needs met and just push forward with it, even if they hold some frustration, they just push on with life.
Do not pressure them, give them space, when they ready they will come to you and open up to you bit by bit so long as you ain’t rushing or pressuring them to say more. They’re more about actions over words. Provide comfort when they’re looking for it, just do not force it.
Again. Pace yourself, and you’ll find yourself in their cocoon and will understand why they may be the way they are and act the way they do and once you do, you’ll find a special type of love in your hands when it comes to Aquarius.
