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Ok I& #39;m not saying that u can& #39;t vent to ur friends or talk to them abt personal issues, but pls think abt ur friends OWN mental health when u do. I remember when I was in middle school and the only thing my friend would talk about was how much he
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Ok I& #39;m not saying that u can& #39;t vent to ur friends or talk to them abt personal issues, but pls think abt ur friends OWN mental health when u do. I remember when I was in middle school and the only thing my friend would talk about was how much he
wanted 2 die. He made EVERYTHING about it. It made me nervous everytime he messaged me, I ended up not wanting to talk to him anymore. I still remember one time I messaged him and said "I& #39;m taking a shower brb" and he replied like "ok let& #39;s hope I& #39;m still alive when u come back"
DON& #39;T do that shit. I ended up not showering and staying on the phone w him asking if he was okay and he was like "omg I was just joking???" & It sent me into an anxiety attack. I eventually told him "hey I& #39;m always here for u but pls stop making so many suicide jokes."
he said he would, but he didn& #39;t. I had to stop talking to him for like a month. To this day I am always in constant fear that someone around me is going to hurt themselves bc of how this friend would talk to me. If u are in such a state where ur thoughts are 24/7 about how u want
To d*e, then GET HELP AND DON& #39;T 24/7 TALK TO UR FRIENDS ABT HOW U WANNA D*E. Again, nothing wrong w venting with consent, but don& #39;t take advantage of ur friends who WILL be there for u.
(also I know that not everyone has the resources to get help, but if u do I highly encourage u use those resources. I& #39;m not trying to shame ppl who don& #39;t have access to help)
I should probably add that I ended up going 2 the school counselor about my friend & he started seeing her. Also we r still really good friends and I love him but how he treated me in middle school gave me issues I still have today, and I just wanted to make a thread in hopes
That if anyone reading this is talking to ur friend like the way I described in this thread, u could be hurting ur friend and not even realize it :/
ALSO OK ONE LAST THING I am 100% not trying to shame anyone who DOES have these thoughts. Idk if some of this thread is badly worded, I& #39;m autistic and not always the best w wording things, but nothing in this thread is meant to make anyone feel bad, just be conscious w how u vent
