My regular asked "what exactly is a regular? The girls always talk abt their regulars but idk how that works?" I explained making it hilariously obvious that is our exact relationship w/out actually saying it. When it clicked he did an adorable bashful shrug & smile.

He's coy & reserved & im so happy & grateful he let me in & now he just beams.
My regulars are the best ppl. Its so awesome to just meet a person where they are & create these individual experiences & then develop those relationships in ways they are receptive to & appreciate.

And it not one sided & I'm not just getting money out it, though obvi that's what I'm there for. They end up knowing me better than anyone & are my biggest cheerleaders in everything I do. They've offered resources, advice, & knowledge i might never have had access to on my own.

When we (my regulars & I) discuss the way the world views sex work, this is the side they want ppl to see & understand. How truly wholesome, fulfilling, genuine, supportive, mutually respectful & oftentimes life changing it can be.