I wanna tell young girls how much better they are than certain things but it’ll probably come of as condescending
I want to explain that it’s not because we’re better or smarter, we’ve just made the same mistakes a dozen different ways and don’t want to see you go through it too.

Look, me too I didn’t listen. That’s why I was making mistakes I didn’t have to. Life is about experience yes but I don’t have to get in a car accident to know not to drink and drive.

You don’t need to fight over men to realize that men are cheap and not worth your energy.

We’ve all been young dating older men.
I was 21 years old dating a 38 year old thinking I was grown and mature.
Abeg!!! I was easily impressed and swept up. There’s no 30 something year old dating an 18-22 year old that cares about anything other than “young flesh”

The fact is you’re younger, less experienced and open to suggestion which means you’re easier to mold and manipulate.
It doesn’t mean you’re stupid or immature. You’re exactly as mature as a 19 year old should be!
The man preying on you has over a decade more of life experience