The truth is that most Nigerian men are incapable of loving women who don't need their money.

So much of our definition of love is tied to what we can use money to do for women. It like money is the only medium of love we have.

I say this because I was guilty of this in my whoring days. Dated two women who were VERY okay (one was even had more money than me). And God knows I struggled. But I learnt a lot about my inadequacies and I've worked so hard in correcting much of that over time.

And I think our reliance on money as a tool of love is the reason why our women also see money as a symbol of love. And that is why our women jump ship the moment a rich guy starts going broke.

Anyway, we need to learn, unlearn, relearn a whole lot when it comes to being competent partners for our women

The era of throwing money at women and waiting for magic to happen will passed.Most of the women you'd meet in the future will have their own money.

Update your game