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I should be sleeping but I'm gonna rant for a second (no one will see this probably)
So I did a thing and joined two dating apps and one of my male friends said that "girls have it easy on dating apps/finding someone than guys."
Not true. At least for this girl.
Not true. At least for this girl.
As a female who's been overlooked and rejected, it is not easy finding someone. If it was easy for me I'm pretty sure I would be in a serious relationship right now.
Not sure if my friend's comment was gaslighting (I'm still learning what the term means) or if he was just generalizing but it kind of cheesed me and this was my second time saying that it's not easy.
Plus add in the fact that the more and more I live on this decaying earth I see that a lot of people don't care about black women.
And that hurts a lot. I feel like I've been overlooked. It doesn't help that I'm a minority in a city with people who only date within their race.
Anyways, the point of this thread/rant is don't assume that all girls have it easy when it comes to finding someone. ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE NOT A FEMALE.
