I desperately need to make my husband be less nice and moral in bed, he's so overly considerate that he feels bad about ANYTHING that might be seen as aggressive, abusive, taking advantage, forcing his will on me. You fool. Being able to resist me just flattens my self-confidence

Last night he drank one hard cider and I drank two, and he resisted my seduction because he didn't want to feel like taking advantage of a poor confused girl who cannot fully consent. That's real sweet and thoughtful but instead maybe jump at the chance to ravage me next time

I want to be pursued and harrassed and begged for sexual acts. Only then I can pretend to be coy or resist or put up a fight. That's foreplay! It takes off a little bit of the shame of being so needy and greedy and always ready to go. Bear some of the horny burden for me here

Me: "You know when I watch porn it's usually actually very... forceful stuff. It's HOT, it's not real, it's roleplay. I can use a safe word to genuinely stop if I need to--"
Husband: "When I watch porn it's sweet couples having slow loving sex "

The old fujoshi wisdom "You need seme/uke in pairings, wtf would two ukes even do lol lol lol" rings true in these moments. Gotta craft elaborate metalevel sub schemes to get two mostly submissives in bed, like some panda breeding program

I'm domming you to do all these active acts on me, the dom-sub. You're submitting to the ordeal of having to channel initiative as the sub-dom.
It's like deciding who has to wash the dishes this time. I've done it three times in a row, it's your turnnnnn

Sometimes I just want to be late from work because you don't let me get out if bed. Sometimes I want a hickey I can't cover up because you got carried away. Sometimes I want to be unsure if now is a good time for me, and then convinced in action

My preferred method of seduction is making myself look appealing & ready for plucking and be plausible deniability provocative and then go "eheheh oh nooo you can't keep your hands off me, what's gonna happen next >:3" and my craft is wasted when he decides "She should initiate"

This is me initiating, the game already started!!